Getting your ex back by creating scarcity
Getting your ex back after a breakup is no small feat. Very few people are able to turn around an almost impossible situation in such a short amount of time. Yet, many of us expect things to return to normal with a few phone calls and text messages. We react to the situation by harassing our ex. Truly, is this the best some can come up with?
For those of us who actually do manage to convince our ex to try again, the strategy is a little different. We know that this is a time for self-control and that much more can be accomplished by giving our ex some space. We tend not to make a pest of ourselves and may even ignore our ex altogether. The reason this behavior works is that we are creating scarcity and, as humans, we all want what we can’t have.
